N a lifestyle with out written rules or protocols it can be hard to understand what you are supposed to do through the use of words. A dismal way for some as the lifestyle no only perverts everyday things such as wooden spoons we also pervert the vanilla language to suit out purpose. Woe to the novice that cannot interpret what we say as miss-understanding general occurs. Certain words just pop out as dual meanings. The whip is a long device the flogger some what different you do not whip some one with a flogger more flog with a whip. You can see the difference and usually most will understand right away. When I spoke to a sub and she requested the whip her exactly words were master I need the whip. Well she wanted a spanking she ran like hell when I took out the whip. You can get a good whipping with out a whip but you never beat some one with a whip you whip them it is an art form. Another time a young lady was tell me of her hard limits she said I do not play with shit I said OH scat and she started to leave/ I was trying to be informative she took it as the vanilla word states.
This is sort of different sex what is sex in a bdsm relation, when in vanilla life I make lover to a person and the sex act is only a part of it. I make love to their minds their souls I want every part of them to experience orgasm. I never fuck my lovers I make love. Slaves I use sex as another way of degrading them. When you have a cock in your ass there is not other word you should use then you are fucked/ Taking that cock out and shoving it in their mouth means I am degrading you I am reaching for your enjoyment of being humiliated and forcing you to ask me to continue. So as an answer to my friend tha asked about this well best talk this over with your slave or master as to what constitutes sex and can you have a form of sex with others that does not constitute betrayal or cheating.
SO advise those that know do not think it is clear to everyone I just learnt the term predicament bondage is an offshoot of bondage and here I thought it was normal bondage. Novice open up your eyes a bit every word can have two meaning or three or four remember this lifestyle had to hide itself with hankies codes and words for years to pass undetected it is an old habit is not easily broken.
The one rule I set as golden if the student has not learned the teacher has not taught in other words if you are senior in the lifestyle then it is you fault if the novice does not understand best form of teaching to use listen and talking/ One more catch phrase no question is stupid only answers that are not understood are.
CLoud
Showing posts with label concepts of the lifestyle. Show all posts
Showing posts with label concepts of the lifestyle. Show all posts
Sunday, September 13, 2009
Friday, July 31, 2009
The first time I was shown how far a slave would go was when I was 19. My girlfriend at the time Joanne and I were camping. WE plated a late night game of strip poker while camping. She had lost so I owned her clothes and best of all the rest of her cloths were in the car in our back pack. So when she said she was thirsty I said in a joking manner go get it . This wild look came over her face and she said Like this I said yes and my journey truly started in Domming. The shock and excitement caused by her going out of the tent naked was the greatest I had since being spanked myself by two older girls I had played strip poker with when I was fifteen.
or sub.
This would be the first time I dommed anyone for an extended period of time. I had to see how far she would go after that. After she had returned she literally jumped me talking a mile a minute about her walk from he tent to the picnic table a short ten feet but to her it was a mile long and could we do more things like that. During a walk through the wilderness I had her remove her top and stroll along in her bra then I had her remove it also. I was drunk with excitement more about the power I had over her then what she was actually doing .I use her wish to be controlled to explore what I could do with her. Spanking,bondage , outdoor bondage all sort of things I did not yet know the name of we did in out sojourns in camping. One of the keys that drew me deeper into the lifestyle was that even though she had great fear of discovery her desires only need a slight push or suggestion and there she was butt naked. I soon found out there are a lot of people out there that cannot do things that they enjoy with the kind push of a Dominant. I have since enjoy their desires to the nth degree.
or sub.
This would be the first time I dommed anyone for an extended period of time. I had to see how far she would go after that. After she had returned she literally jumped me talking a mile a minute about her walk from he tent to the picnic table a short ten feet but to her it was a mile long and could we do more things like that. During a walk through the wilderness I had her remove her top and stroll along in her bra then I had her remove it also. I was drunk with excitement more about the power I had over her then what she was actually doing .I use her wish to be controlled to explore what I could do with her. Spanking,bondage , outdoor bondage all sort of things I did not yet know the name of we did in out sojourns in camping. One of the keys that drew me deeper into the lifestyle was that even though she had great fear of discovery her desires only need a slight push or suggestion and there she was butt naked. I soon found out there are a lot of people out there that cannot do things that they enjoy with the kind push of a Dominant. I have since enjoy their desires to the nth degree.
Monday, June 15, 2009
Pure Master orowner is it possible
I believe that pure domination is possible. Pure slavery and Pure owner can exists. I do believe many say they are in it by being in 24/7 relations or by the extreme of their play In my opinion, most who say they are in 24,7 relations really are, just it is not the lifestyle that is the bases.
No slave hands over total control to the dominants as they would, unless they be sold or given as an object. I feel a great many 24/7s cloud the idea with being together as 24/7 bdsm lifestyle rather than they are in a vanilla relation with a lot of kink. So total mental and physical control would be at the top of the list. I would never have to be anything but the owner or Master. Never to show weakness in front of the slave, so as not to give any form of control back to her.. Nor falter and allow the slave a choice of anything. Her vanilla life would disappear, as that is a form of control. Health , business, family and friends would have no concern for her as she would be like the couch or pot that I use. She would serve a purpose and I would care for her as I would any possession that proves itself useful.
Perhaps a week many two I would last as that type of Dominant, but for me that definition is more of a doormat then a slave. I do believe that must be given a controlling interest in all parts of the slave’s life nor should the Dominant show weakness in front of the slave. I just would prefer to be the proprietor of a fine horse then say I own a stool. Perhaps there is another definition of pure Master or Owner.
No slave hands over total control to the dominants as they would, unless they be sold or given as an object. I feel a great many 24/7s cloud the idea with being together as 24/7 bdsm lifestyle rather than they are in a vanilla relation with a lot of kink. So total mental and physical control would be at the top of the list. I would never have to be anything but the owner or Master. Never to show weakness in front of the slave, so as not to give any form of control back to her.. Nor falter and allow the slave a choice of anything. Her vanilla life would disappear, as that is a form of control. Health , business, family and friends would have no concern for her as she would be like the couch or pot that I use. She would serve a purpose and I would care for her as I would any possession that proves itself useful.
Perhaps a week many two I would last as that type of Dominant, but for me that definition is more of a doormat then a slave. I do believe that must be given a controlling interest in all parts of the slave’s life nor should the Dominant show weakness in front of the slave. I just would prefer to be the proprietor of a fine horse then say I own a stool. Perhaps there is another definition of pure Master or Owner.
Sunday, June 14, 2009
Pure Dominance
A conversation with a friend delved into the idea of pure slavery. as I sit in my den listening to Medievil Babes I have come to realise this universe doe not allow singular entities to exist. Teh yning an dyang must exist in all parts of our lives. We now have accepted the idea of dark matter in the Universe.
SO if there is true slavery is there true Dominance?
What does it consist of off?
SO if there is true slavery is there true Dominance?
What does it consist of off?
Sunday, May 3, 2009
Desensitization
An old English professor of mine would put emphasis on the object of the preposition. He would say object of the prep and the class would say sition with great strength, He would have loved the word desensitization. He would be one of the few.
I received an email from the humiliation group on fetlife. How do you over come desensitization? Specifically desensitization to humiliation was the main topic. We tend in our lifestyle especially now a days, to concentrate on what we like rather then just taking the right amount we over indulge. We get our desert before we eat our Brussels sprouts. What peeks my interest here is that the Dominants that comment said things such as I wish you lived closer or that it was not being done right worse that what he needs is a great amount. I believe his question was how does he get the same enjoyment he once did and to me those answers would just drive his desensitization further. An old expression you can’t whip a dead horse comes to mind.
Again I see this god complex in some dominants and worse see how little they listen or understand what is being said to them. Perhaps his dominant over indulge him in humiliation perhaps too many joined in , perhaps they did not know how to do it right could be but the cure is to bring him back down to his base give him a rest from it. A friend of mine s sub has a very tuff buttock toward cp. Her Master wisely does not use only one weapon in his attempt to make her fly. He varies from whips to clamps and needles. He varies time place and circumstance. She always finishes most sessions wanting more yet had reach orgasm at least once.
So for me I would remove heavy humiliation from his sessions and replace it with some loving humiliation such as a whisper of him being my little whore as we walked on the street not loud enough for any one to hear but him and perhaps put a little more playfulness into the sessions to give him a little vacation from being the downtrodden. I do wish that Dominants would sit back now and then and take stock of their own humanity rather then think their shit does not smell. When a slave puts us on a pedestal it is one thing when we do it ourselves it is another. When we do it we are setting ourselves and our slaves up for a fall.
Of course my thoughts, my opinion.
I received an email from the humiliation group on fetlife. How do you over come desensitization? Specifically desensitization to humiliation was the main topic. We tend in our lifestyle especially now a days, to concentrate on what we like rather then just taking the right amount we over indulge. We get our desert before we eat our Brussels sprouts. What peeks my interest here is that the Dominants that comment said things such as I wish you lived closer or that it was not being done right worse that what he needs is a great amount. I believe his question was how does he get the same enjoyment he once did and to me those answers would just drive his desensitization further. An old expression you can’t whip a dead horse comes to mind.
Again I see this god complex in some dominants and worse see how little they listen or understand what is being said to them. Perhaps his dominant over indulge him in humiliation perhaps too many joined in , perhaps they did not know how to do it right could be but the cure is to bring him back down to his base give him a rest from it. A friend of mine s sub has a very tuff buttock toward cp. Her Master wisely does not use only one weapon in his attempt to make her fly. He varies from whips to clamps and needles. He varies time place and circumstance. She always finishes most sessions wanting more yet had reach orgasm at least once.
So for me I would remove heavy humiliation from his sessions and replace it with some loving humiliation such as a whisper of him being my little whore as we walked on the street not loud enough for any one to hear but him and perhaps put a little more playfulness into the sessions to give him a little vacation from being the downtrodden. I do wish that Dominants would sit back now and then and take stock of their own humanity rather then think their shit does not smell. When a slave puts us on a pedestal it is one thing when we do it ourselves it is another. When we do it we are setting ourselves and our slaves up for a fall.
Of course my thoughts, my opinion.
Saturday, May 2, 2009
Things I won’t do or ask for.
Yes I do love telling anyone who will listen much like the ancient mariner of things I have done and would ike to do to slaves. I have listed rules and regulation my love of protocols, punishment sessions to extend play sessions and also my hard limits.
There are some things I will never ask for.
Permanent marks distinguishing ownership Cloud has been written on many an ass but never branded or tattooed. I love looking at those that carry piercing but have never told or ask a slave to have them done nor have I allowed them to do so in my ownership of them.
I will not be here for ever so to do so is just too much to ask of anyone. I am more impressed by the offering of slavery by some one to me then a mark saying I own them. I do not mark my stereo nor car and would not should I own a dog or cat so what would possess me to ask for such a thing of some one offering me more then any symbol could show.
Piercing for me get in the way of some play I like so nice jewels but do they come in clip on?
Now, for some thing a little more sombre asking for a a death pact. Something I had heard of in books such as the story of O and perhaps a few other stories. If the Master dies the slave commits suicide, Whoa Now I feel I can speak on this because I was asked to make one with a slave a few years ago. I did not refuse at first instead I pointed out she had children she had others depending on her and could not enter into such a pack nor would I ask any one to do so. If anything I want them to go off and tell every one what a great Master I was and boy anyone not trained by Cloud missed out.
There is a reality to the lifestyle we are not born to it as some think those supposed naturals that gave commands minutes after coming out of the womb. I am not a god I am close at times but just do not want to make as many mistakes as they have. I do not wish to control the length of time on this plane of existence merely like to enjoy the time I have and they have on it. The serious side of a slave asking for a death pact is it might be a cry saying they do not really have control over them selves to be a slave and should get help from outside of the lifestyle. I can see the ideal and possibility of living 24/7 but not this type of control this type is well passed a healthy bdsm relationship. My thoughts , my opinion.
There are some things I will never ask for.
Permanent marks distinguishing ownership Cloud has been written on many an ass but never branded or tattooed. I love looking at those that carry piercing but have never told or ask a slave to have them done nor have I allowed them to do so in my ownership of them.
I will not be here for ever so to do so is just too much to ask of anyone. I am more impressed by the offering of slavery by some one to me then a mark saying I own them. I do not mark my stereo nor car and would not should I own a dog or cat so what would possess me to ask for such a thing of some one offering me more then any symbol could show.
Piercing for me get in the way of some play I like so nice jewels but do they come in clip on?
Now, for some thing a little more sombre asking for a a death pact. Something I had heard of in books such as the story of O and perhaps a few other stories. If the Master dies the slave commits suicide, Whoa Now I feel I can speak on this because I was asked to make one with a slave a few years ago. I did not refuse at first instead I pointed out she had children she had others depending on her and could not enter into such a pack nor would I ask any one to do so. If anything I want them to go off and tell every one what a great Master I was and boy anyone not trained by Cloud missed out.
There is a reality to the lifestyle we are not born to it as some think those supposed naturals that gave commands minutes after coming out of the womb. I am not a god I am close at times but just do not want to make as many mistakes as they have. I do not wish to control the length of time on this plane of existence merely like to enjoy the time I have and they have on it. The serious side of a slave asking for a death pact is it might be a cry saying they do not really have control over them selves to be a slave and should get help from outside of the lifestyle. I can see the ideal and possibility of living 24/7 but not this type of control this type is well passed a healthy bdsm relationship. My thoughts , my opinion.
Wednesday, April 29, 2009
A ponderance on caging
Caging came up in another blog I read and I had a laugh. It made me remember the old rule on leashes. It a slave has a leash on and it hangs free with neither the slave or the dominant holding it it used to mean that person was offering themselves to anyone in the room. Should some one take hold of the leash then they had control over the slave. Since there are no rules in a large book then for me if I caged a slave and left them with no sign stating ownership I feel it would be doing the same as if I let go of a leash. The only thing that would stop me from gong up to a caged slave and having some fun with her is I am a strong believer in protocols, which really are based on common etiquette. I would have no problem if I was told the slave was an offering to all or if I was asked to play.
Ny first public play occurred many years agao and did not have th erules that so many think exist in the lifestyle. Dominants would gather in one room and have a drink while in the other room the slaves stripped and knelt when they entered and waited. Waited not for their Doms but by any dominant in the room. There was no choice except not to show up. SoO it did not matter whether you were in a cage or on a leash whether you like one dominant over the other.
We were just happy to play. Now I see the influence of advertisers show desire as rightful needs we want out perfect ideal and that to me had taken so much fun out of the lifestyle. No spontaneity no fear of what might happen just following a script.
Ny first public play occurred many years agao and did not have th erules that so many think exist in the lifestyle. Dominants would gather in one room and have a drink while in the other room the slaves stripped and knelt when they entered and waited. Waited not for their Doms but by any dominant in the room. There was no choice except not to show up. SoO it did not matter whether you were in a cage or on a leash whether you like one dominant over the other.
We were just happy to play. Now I see the influence of advertisers show desire as rightful needs we want out perfect ideal and that to me had taken so much fun out of the lifestyle. No spontaneity no fear of what might happen just following a script.
Wednesday, October 29, 2008
Sessions or just a slaves life
I use the word but dislike the concept of it. Session has been used as a word for reward and for punishment. IT almost seems like a date which is just not evil enough for me. Slavery does not stop after a session nor does it begin with the doorbell. I expect a slave to be in that mode 24/7 for me not just when they will see me or get a reward. Just because I am not there does not mean there are not rules and protocols to follow. It is not all about their little asses being beaten so they can enjoy flight.
What would I call it just a day in the life of my slave.Some days her performance is based on how she follows what I set down and some on how she serves me when I am there. Expectations for a slave should be only that I used her as I see fit.
I will have to say that the most interesting times I have with slaves is when they do not expect me to show up . Standing outside their door I call to say I am coming over then wait two minutes and ring the bell. If they have followed what I set down there is no problem but then how many slaves when given the idea that there is no possible way I would show up do not relax a bit. So for lack of a better word those sessions are so fun for me as they sweat having run around taking off their clothes or cleaning up so fun to see that face of shock when they open the door.
So, I guess till I figure out some new phrase I will have to call them session.
CLoud
What would I call it just a day in the life of my slave.Some days her performance is based on how she follows what I set down and some on how she serves me when I am there. Expectations for a slave should be only that I used her as I see fit.
I will have to say that the most interesting times I have with slaves is when they do not expect me to show up . Standing outside their door I call to say I am coming over then wait two minutes and ring the bell. If they have followed what I set down there is no problem but then how many slaves when given the idea that there is no possible way I would show up do not relax a bit. So for lack of a better word those sessions are so fun for me as they sweat having run around taking off their clothes or cleaning up so fun to see that face of shock when they open the door.
So, I guess till I figure out some new phrase I will have to call them session.
CLoud
Monday, October 20, 2008
Why are you here
A question asked of me by one of the first mentor Gregory. It is a question we should all asked our selves now and then. I enjoy the power and the control over others and the idea that I can do anything with in reason and they will thank me for it.
I enjoy seeing the struggle on their faces as the wait for my verdict on their work and their obedience. I enjoy seeing how much they will take to satisfy me and of course prove themselves so that they are allowed their reward of flight or orgasm.
If asked this of a slave what would they answer? Would a pain slut say that they are there because I like to inflict pain or that they need pain to fly. What makes a slave wish the beating, the humiliation , is it they need to serve or need the pain and so serve as payment for it. The control and humiliation to enhance their pleasure or is it to show what they will endure for a Master. Do they use the lack of control on their part as an excuses to do the unspeakable things desires held back by the morals of church and state. Is it the naughty pleasure of naked sexuality. Why does the slave start into the lifestyle?
CLoud
I enjoy seeing the struggle on their faces as the wait for my verdict on their work and their obedience. I enjoy seeing how much they will take to satisfy me and of course prove themselves so that they are allowed their reward of flight or orgasm.
If asked this of a slave what would they answer? Would a pain slut say that they are there because I like to inflict pain or that they need pain to fly. What makes a slave wish the beating, the humiliation , is it they need to serve or need the pain and so serve as payment for it. The control and humiliation to enhance their pleasure or is it to show what they will endure for a Master. Do they use the lack of control on their part as an excuses to do the unspeakable things desires held back by the morals of church and state. Is it the naughty pleasure of naked sexuality. Why does the slave start into the lifestyle?
CLoud
Friday, October 17, 2008
Consitence
What do most slaves want ? TO be controlled to be given a sense of purpose by having some one take the lead make the decisions and tell them what to do. Their need is to serve and do the bidding of the Master. Do not expect or wish otherwise . They do not want to be liberated or have choice they want the master choice even though they might hate it not want to do it they show how good they are by overcoming that and doing it.
A slave that does not like some thing shows how much they care by doing their best possible job in the face of adversity. The easiest way of loosing a slave give them a choice. Do not give them structure , do not discipline them , do not correct the smallest of faults and you have open a chink in your armor and worse puts doubt in their mind. Oh he no long wants me. I am not serving him well he is looking for another. they enjoy the attention with out it you cannot ecpect to turn the slave in them off and on when you want it is too much of a commitment for them to be able to do so. They must have the punishment s , the tasks and the rules.
There are like children or puppies act with a consistent firm hand and they grow strong things of value weaken the grip and they develop delinquent ways. Slaves when they feel their worse need more of a firm hand and guide to positive thinking then a nurse. NO I do not mean that at the first signs of a cold you should taken them out for some outdoor bondage in January . I mean you tell l them what to do and how to do if they do not heed your words you show your love by forcing them. A simple grab of their ear a suppository up the ass gets their attention quite quickly.
I have been told I am scary , mean , nasty and uncaring surprisingly never has one of my slaves aid this. Always from those looking on . I have been told I am strict , that I punish a lot and I am consistent and I do not go out of role with my slaves . That for me is a key.
A slave does not come to me for my looks , that I have a lot of money. It is because I give them a perception of their desires. I give control consistency, fairness and a black and white way of life. If you error you are punished , if you do good you are rewarded very simple very clear if you do what I say you do good if you choose not to you r punished how simple. No gray area no if ands or buts unless it is their butt and I am whipping it. I like power I am sadistic , they like not having power they are masochistic. I enjoy developing challenges they enjoy surpassing the difficulty to serve hmmm and so why do some Masters tinker with this concept I do not know. It is a very good think we have we compliment each other so why the need to do it differently?
These thoughts were based on a blog by littleone a friend you can read her at
WWW.wtsubbie.blogspot.com
CLOUD
A slave that does not like some thing shows how much they care by doing their best possible job in the face of adversity. The easiest way of loosing a slave give them a choice. Do not give them structure , do not discipline them , do not correct the smallest of faults and you have open a chink in your armor and worse puts doubt in their mind. Oh he no long wants me. I am not serving him well he is looking for another. they enjoy the attention with out it you cannot ecpect to turn the slave in them off and on when you want it is too much of a commitment for them to be able to do so. They must have the punishment s , the tasks and the rules.
There are like children or puppies act with a consistent firm hand and they grow strong things of value weaken the grip and they develop delinquent ways. Slaves when they feel their worse need more of a firm hand and guide to positive thinking then a nurse. NO I do not mean that at the first signs of a cold you should taken them out for some outdoor bondage in January . I mean you tell l them what to do and how to do if they do not heed your words you show your love by forcing them. A simple grab of their ear a suppository up the ass gets their attention quite quickly.
I have been told I am scary , mean , nasty and uncaring surprisingly never has one of my slaves aid this. Always from those looking on . I have been told I am strict , that I punish a lot and I am consistent and I do not go out of role with my slaves . That for me is a key.
A slave does not come to me for my looks , that I have a lot of money. It is because I give them a perception of their desires. I give control consistency, fairness and a black and white way of life. If you error you are punished , if you do good you are rewarded very simple very clear if you do what I say you do good if you choose not to you r punished how simple. No gray area no if ands or buts unless it is their butt and I am whipping it. I like power I am sadistic , they like not having power they are masochistic. I enjoy developing challenges they enjoy surpassing the difficulty to serve hmmm and so why do some Masters tinker with this concept I do not know. It is a very good think we have we compliment each other so why the need to do it differently?
These thoughts were based on a blog by littleone a friend you can read her at
WWW.wtsubbie.blogspot.com
CLOUD
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