Friday, July 30, 2010

A cold tush

Funny, how when the weather changes! The ease of getting up and not putting on clothes becomes a little more difficult. So I have been told to overcome this so no clothes till noon. Other wise known as slave wear.

nija

Thursday, July 29, 2010

I sat down with lots of time and nothing to do so I put together a list of toys that I like the best now as far as play sessions

1. Wood paddles
2. Yardsticks
3. leather paddles
4. Floggers
5. Short leather whips and quirts
6. Canes
7. Whips
8. After that well I will leave the rest to the Dominant (giggles)

Can you tell I am having a slow day! Time to hang aroundin the garage.

nija

Friday, July 23, 2010

Thought s on Humiliation

Humiliation is an art form that many think they have mastered. Humiliation play must produce in the victim a feeling of exposure. The most delicate of details or hidden secrets revealed with inevitability. They can be no escape for the victim whether it is to run or verbally defend. Since I know myself well I will speak from my perspective.

Spitting on some one is is saying that you are so weak however if the one spat upon chased the person down the street that does not show weakness. Put the same person in a room of twenty people spitting on him or in bondage caused a different effect. It says you are controlled and we will do anything we want to. Not being able to defend or chase after them produces the helpless feeling sought after.
Size is another point that many miss. The idea is to draw attention t the penis and balls or breasts for women. While verbal can be fun I know of only one that can get under my skin with verbal discussion of my penis how ever put me in a control area where I cannot escape from with the part exposed to visual evaluation alone with verbal and I am totally brought to the level of being helpless that I have no control of what secrets will be forced out. Just like the slave the whole idea is to reduce the slave or one humiliated to a point of doing what is asked of them including exposing greater secrets giving over more control in a constant escalation.

The last part of humiliation who is doing it? Should a former slave take charge of my humiliation that would be utterly embarrassing there fore I would love it. I also find it very stimulating to be humiliated by those of another race which I do not understand as I am not prejudice they just seem to be able to push my buttons in the right way.