Fear

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A lovely sensation at times for a slave or sub Fear is. It brings anticipation, intensity and extreme sensitivity to all around them. It starts all those chemicals and endorphins up in the body. It wets their loins you could say for what will happen next for the slave a bit of fear is a catalyst at times.

Fear in Dominant is unacceptable. The fear of failure, of ridicule or of not pleasing the slave, all fears that can enter into a Dominant soul. All do not belong there. Making excuses so as to avoid confronting them is also unacceptable.

The greatest fear that to me destroys sessions and relations is the fear of injuring. My god you are the ones supposedly in control if you cannot control your fear please do not call yourselves Dominants and above all do not play or own slaves. I grow tired of hearing the whining of Dominants that profess to be strong-minded and in character yet fear decision-making . Do I hit her ten or twelve times best error on the safe side. What a Masterful statement just makes you want to be be ill does it not. Protocols and rules are too much trouble for the new Dominants I feel much easier to allow slaves to decide on their own so the Dominants can have reason to punish. Well I hate to tell you but if you own a slave and feel like whacking her ass till she wet on both sets of her cheeks that is your right as an owner you do not need reason for that nor her permission. You need to buck up a bit stand up straight and realize that being a Dominants is a lot of work if you fear the work or the results best not try as you have failed already.

Please understand this before you contact me to be mentored as a Dominant. If you are a slave best make sure you understand the meaning of the word slave.