Friday, September 10, 2010
Most enjoyable.
I enjoy using a lot of different instruments to spank with. On of my favourite thing is a machete. The slap of cold steel on some ones ass is such an endearing sound. I seem to concentrate so much more on every stroke. I see the twitches in the body I am working on and the fear in the slave oozes out of the slave. Questions that must be running through their mine what if he just turns the blade a little how much damage would it cause? What if he just drops it? Fear such a lovely thing when used properly.
Friday, July 30, 2010
A cold tush
Funny, how when the weather changes! The ease of getting up and not putting on clothes becomes a little more difficult. So I have been told to overcome this so no clothes till noon. Other wise known as slave wear.
nija
nija
Thursday, July 29, 2010
I sat down with lots of time and nothing to do so I put together a list of toys that I like the best now as far as play sessions
1. Wood paddles
2. Yardsticks
3. leather paddles
4. Floggers
5. Short leather whips and quirts
6. Canes
7. Whips
8. After that well I will leave the rest to the Dominant (giggles)
Can you tell I am having a slow day! Time to hang aroundin the garage.
nija
1. Wood paddles
2. Yardsticks
3. leather paddles
4. Floggers
5. Short leather whips and quirts
6. Canes
7. Whips
8. After that well I will leave the rest to the Dominant (giggles)
Can you tell I am having a slow day! Time to hang aroundin the garage.
nija
Friday, July 23, 2010
Thought s on Humiliation
Humiliation is an art form that many think they have mastered. Humiliation play must produce in the victim a feeling of exposure. The most delicate of details or hidden secrets revealed with inevitability. They can be no escape for the victim whether it is to run or verbally defend. Since I know myself well I will speak from my perspective.
Spitting on some one is is saying that you are so weak however if the one spat upon chased the person down the street that does not show weakness. Put the same person in a room of twenty people spitting on him or in bondage caused a different effect. It says you are controlled and we will do anything we want to. Not being able to defend or chase after them produces the helpless feeling sought after.
Size is another point that many miss. The idea is to draw attention t the penis and balls or breasts for women. While verbal can be fun I know of only one that can get under my skin with verbal discussion of my penis how ever put me in a control area where I cannot escape from with the part exposed to visual evaluation alone with verbal and I am totally brought to the level of being helpless that I have no control of what secrets will be forced out. Just like the slave the whole idea is to reduce the slave or one humiliated to a point of doing what is asked of them including exposing greater secrets giving over more control in a constant escalation.
The last part of humiliation who is doing it? Should a former slave take charge of my humiliation that would be utterly embarrassing there fore I would love it. I also find it very stimulating to be humiliated by those of another race which I do not understand as I am not prejudice they just seem to be able to push my buttons in the right way.
Spitting on some one is is saying that you are so weak however if the one spat upon chased the person down the street that does not show weakness. Put the same person in a room of twenty people spitting on him or in bondage caused a different effect. It says you are controlled and we will do anything we want to. Not being able to defend or chase after them produces the helpless feeling sought after.
Size is another point that many miss. The idea is to draw attention t the penis and balls or breasts for women. While verbal can be fun I know of only one that can get under my skin with verbal discussion of my penis how ever put me in a control area where I cannot escape from with the part exposed to visual evaluation alone with verbal and I am totally brought to the level of being helpless that I have no control of what secrets will be forced out. Just like the slave the whole idea is to reduce the slave or one humiliated to a point of doing what is asked of them including exposing greater secrets giving over more control in a constant escalation.
The last part of humiliation who is doing it? Should a former slave take charge of my humiliation that would be utterly embarrassing there fore I would love it. I also find it very stimulating to be humiliated by those of another race which I do not understand as I am not prejudice they just seem to be able to push my buttons in the right way.
Thursday, June 10, 2010
A view through others eyes.
A joke was sent to me it started with What real men are. It listed these wonderful traits that inspired the author of the joke to aspire to many great things. Here it is:
A Real Man
A real man is a woman's best friend. He will
never stand her up and never let her down.
He will reassure her when she feels insecure
and comfort her after a bad day.
He will inspire her to do things she never
thought she could do; to live without fear
and forget regret. He will enable her to
express her deepest emotions and give in to
her most intimate desires. He will make sure
she always feels as though she's the most
beautiful woman in the room and will enable
her to be the most confident, sexy,
seductive, and invincible.
No wait... sorry... I'm thinking of wine.
Never mind.
I thought the punch line would have been a dog actually. Funny how we perceive each other to the point of grouping all men to be less then a glass of wine. I seem to remember many women brning their bras and telling me how much better the world would be if they were in power. I held out hope to see a better place that maybe their understanding of the things would allow them to mother this poor earth back.
Yet power does corrupt even the smallest amount. The statement sof how they would change life and make everyone equal does not show in this joke. IF it was written about real women it first would be chastised in our society as derogatory, belittling females at the least sexist and the author a chauvinist. It would also paint a picture of wine guzzling chauvinist as the norm for all men.
So what have I learned? Humour is another form of bulling power corrupts in a greater ratio in those that did not have then those that had power for a longer time. That no matter how hard one tries to stop the pendulum in the middle it will swing freely to compensate for how far it was on the other side.
When we look though others eyes we see the injustice but when looking through our own eyes we enjoy the power.
Not a rant just a thought, looking through my eyes.
A Real Man
A real man is a woman's best friend. He will
never stand her up and never let her down.
He will reassure her when she feels insecure
and comfort her after a bad day.
He will inspire her to do things she never
thought she could do; to live without fear
and forget regret. He will enable her to
express her deepest emotions and give in to
her most intimate desires. He will make sure
she always feels as though she's the most
beautiful woman in the room and will enable
her to be the most confident, sexy,
seductive, and invincible.
No wait... sorry... I'm thinking of wine.
Never mind.
I thought the punch line would have been a dog actually. Funny how we perceive each other to the point of grouping all men to be less then a glass of wine. I seem to remember many women brning their bras and telling me how much better the world would be if they were in power. I held out hope to see a better place that maybe their understanding of the things would allow them to mother this poor earth back.
Yet power does corrupt even the smallest amount. The statement sof how they would change life and make everyone equal does not show in this joke. IF it was written about real women it first would be chastised in our society as derogatory, belittling females at the least sexist and the author a chauvinist. It would also paint a picture of wine guzzling chauvinist as the norm for all men.
So what have I learned? Humour is another form of bulling power corrupts in a greater ratio in those that did not have then those that had power for a longer time. That no matter how hard one tries to stop the pendulum in the middle it will swing freely to compensate for how far it was on the other side.
When we look though others eyes we see the injustice but when looking through our own eyes we enjoy the power.
Not a rant just a thought, looking through my eyes.
Monday, June 7, 2010
Thoughts on 24/7
Fo LDW and kamala
In a twenty/four seven relation you have two solitudes. Tha slave’s interpertaiona nd the Owners.
The slave will look to the owner for thier desires to be met for as much of the time as they deem possible. If any owner was ever albe to live up to these expectations, they would be wearing a blue body suit with red short and red cape usually answering to anything preceded by the word super. The idea of a slave would put all decision making upon them but balk at the idea that some one else deemed by the owners to do the everyday things and decisions such as the slave themselves.
Imagine getting up every morning and having to decide what underwear to put on then deciding what your slave should wear eat do. Having a robot that you have to program every day would be the extreme o f desires but I am sure that any owner reading this or Dominant whould sit back and say this is what their slave would want total loss of control total absence of responsibility for themselves. All they have to do is do what they are told or accept the punishment.
The Dominant on the other hand while we think of ourselves as just people might well have the extreme idea that once trained that is how they remain never faulting again never causng extra work. We would have perfect households. Food would be ready on the table our slippers at the door when we enter. While at the beginning this might be true later on this will change as the salve feels with more time there should be more play. With out more play the control will be taken back from the dominant in rules not followed arguments poor service insolence and general break down in th eslave Master relationship.
The extrems of both must be discussed and fully exposed. IN that fashion both parties will have been honest and a common grofor slavery and service will be found. It is not for every one! There are many compromises both parties must go through. A concern might be the area of health and some thing as small as diet. If a slave is missing vitamins in their deit yet refuse to eat their veggies lets say even after their doctors a has told them to. Is this an area you want to worry about ? If you force them to even thought they say you have control they will also sit back and say to themselves after looking at those green things on their plate again thinking I am perfect healthy with out those things. Are you stong enough to stare them down and is the slave strong enough or trusting enough that you are doing this for them and not the power trip that you can.
In a twenty/four seven relation you have two solitudes. Tha slave’s interpertaiona nd the Owners.
The slave will look to the owner for thier desires to be met for as much of the time as they deem possible. If any owner was ever albe to live up to these expectations, they would be wearing a blue body suit with red short and red cape usually answering to anything preceded by the word super. The idea of a slave would put all decision making upon them but balk at the idea that some one else deemed by the owners to do the everyday things and decisions such as the slave themselves.
Imagine getting up every morning and having to decide what underwear to put on then deciding what your slave should wear eat do. Having a robot that you have to program every day would be the extreme o f desires but I am sure that any owner reading this or Dominant whould sit back and say this is what their slave would want total loss of control total absence of responsibility for themselves. All they have to do is do what they are told or accept the punishment.
The Dominant on the other hand while we think of ourselves as just people might well have the extreme idea that once trained that is how they remain never faulting again never causng extra work. We would have perfect households. Food would be ready on the table our slippers at the door when we enter. While at the beginning this might be true later on this will change as the salve feels with more time there should be more play. With out more play the control will be taken back from the dominant in rules not followed arguments poor service insolence and general break down in th eslave Master relationship.
The extrems of both must be discussed and fully exposed. IN that fashion both parties will have been honest and a common grofor slavery and service will be found. It is not for every one! There are many compromises both parties must go through. A concern might be the area of health and some thing as small as diet. If a slave is missing vitamins in their deit yet refuse to eat their veggies lets say even after their doctors a has told them to. Is this an area you want to worry about ? If you force them to even thought they say you have control they will also sit back and say to themselves after looking at those green things on their plate again thinking I am perfect healthy with out those things. Are you stong enough to stare them down and is the slave strong enough or trusting enough that you are doing this for them and not the power trip that you can.
Wednesday, May 26, 2010
Living up to expectations
Living up to expectations.
It is funny how others will bestow certain actions and beliefs on you. If you are a dominant, you must wear leather pyjamas and never be nice to anyone. If you are a slave well you cannot have thought or rights. I hve seen the stress of expectation change individuals as they strive to meet the expectations of others and not the desires that they have . To please the other they confine themselves in rules protocols or traditions that others have because that is what they think is expected of them.
I do not eat puppies or kittens. I have a vanilla life and as far as I know no police agency is seeking my alter ego the mr hyde part. As fara as being a vampire no I like meat not just the blood. I used to hunt but found ther e to be no sport in hunting anymore as it does not provide equal opportunity for the animal to win. Before anyone jumps upcrying I used and Indian bow which you had to be withint fifteen yards to kill your prey not an easy task by any means as animals are much smarted then we are in the wild. I never hunted bear but one hunted me and I did sit in a tree for close to four hours contemplating whether I could outrun the bear before she left.
Expectations are a projection of desere if you cannot express them in some language then best not participate until you can. So answers yno I am not evil yes I have an evil mind. I am a bit of a sadist and yes a bit of a masochist. I love protocols when done right they produce a sexual tension that raely can be reproduced by other type of play , no I do not need it it is not an expectation. What is an expectation well are you human , have the legal right to make decisions and an open mind well that is what I ecpect.
And really, really I like puppies
It is funny how others will bestow certain actions and beliefs on you. If you are a dominant, you must wear leather pyjamas and never be nice to anyone. If you are a slave well you cannot have thought or rights. I hve seen the stress of expectation change individuals as they strive to meet the expectations of others and not the desires that they have . To please the other they confine themselves in rules protocols or traditions that others have because that is what they think is expected of them.
I do not eat puppies or kittens. I have a vanilla life and as far as I know no police agency is seeking my alter ego the mr hyde part. As fara as being a vampire no I like meat not just the blood. I used to hunt but found ther e to be no sport in hunting anymore as it does not provide equal opportunity for the animal to win. Before anyone jumps upcrying I used and Indian bow which you had to be withint fifteen yards to kill your prey not an easy task by any means as animals are much smarted then we are in the wild. I never hunted bear but one hunted me and I did sit in a tree for close to four hours contemplating whether I could outrun the bear before she left.
Expectations are a projection of desere if you cannot express them in some language then best not participate until you can. So answers yno I am not evil yes I have an evil mind. I am a bit of a sadist and yes a bit of a masochist. I love protocols when done right they produce a sexual tension that raely can be reproduced by other type of play , no I do not need it it is not an expectation. What is an expectation well are you human , have the legal right to make decisions and an open mind well that is what I ecpect.
And really, really I like puppies
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