A comment

A comment on my friends blog. A dominant that agrees damage is not an objective of mine.


Blue is not a colour for humans. Despite the love of extreme play there are ways of attaining the sensation without the damage.

I have seem testicle and penises in deep blue almost black and wonder why? The human body has indicators to let you know it is a little too much. One of them is colour. Red is the first colour when there is a flush or deeper pink from repeated strikes to a spot we know we should move on returning to that spot only when the red or pink diminishes. When it is in the face you know the air way is being closed so you lighten up on the grip of their neck.

So i do not understand when a part of the anatomy is blue you do not realize you have gone too far or worse the dominant was not paying attention. There is knowledge out there that can give the sensation such as the cat's claw. Which holds the testicles securely but does not cut off the blood flow. Binding the breast is the same you can firmly hold the breast without it going blue.


So i do not understand how or why there are those that bow to the wishes of the slave to bind tighter the dominant is in charge at that moment and for all the cute phrases is the one with the responsibility.
Scar tissue damage to glands are all not a requirement of the lifestyle. Caring for one's property allowing the slave to give themselves over with out worry is part a major part of the lifestyle. In youth we tend to think we know it all and do not seek out a mentor that has the experience in the area you wish to move into not just offer a naked ass to some one holding a cane in their hand hoping that warm tingling sensation is shared by the one with the cane.

My ten cents on a subject that the youth should worry about if you want more extreme play you will pay for it later through desensitisation, scaring , aches and pains so know what you are getting into .Now I shall return to my silence.