A joke was sent to me it started with What real men are. It listed these wonderful traits that inspired the author of the joke to aspire to many great things. Here it is:
A Real Man
A real man is a woman's best friend. He will
never stand her up and never let her down.
He will reassure her when she feels insecure
and comfort her after a bad day.
He will inspire her to do things she never
thought she could do; to live without fear
and forget regret. He will enable her to
express her deepest emotions and give in to
her most intimate desires. He will make sure
she always feels as though she's the most
beautiful woman in the room and will enable
her to be the most confident, sexy,
seductive, and invincible.
No wait... sorry... I'm thinking of wine.
Never mind.
I thought the punch line would have been a dog actually. Funny how we perceive each other to the point of grouping all men to be less then a glass of wine. I seem to remember many women brning their bras and telling me how much better the world would be if they were in power. I held out hope to see a better place that maybe their understanding of the things would allow them to mother this poor earth back.
Yet power does corrupt even the smallest amount. The statement sof how they would change life and make everyone equal does not show in this joke. IF it was written about real women it first would be chastised in our society as derogatory, belittling females at the least sexist and the author a chauvinist. It would also paint a picture of wine guzzling chauvinist as the norm for all men.
So what have I learned? Humour is another form of bulling power corrupts in a greater ratio in those that did not have then those that had power for a longer time. That no matter how hard one tries to stop the pendulum in the middle it will swing freely to compensate for how far it was on the other side.
When we look though others eyes we see the injustice but when looking through our own eyes we enjoy the power.
Not a rant just a thought, looking through my eyes.
Thursday, June 10, 2010
Monday, June 7, 2010
Thoughts on 24/7
Fo LDW and kamala
In a twenty/four seven relation you have two solitudes. Tha slave’s interpertaiona nd the Owners.
The slave will look to the owner for thier desires to be met for as much of the time as they deem possible. If any owner was ever albe to live up to these expectations, they would be wearing a blue body suit with red short and red cape usually answering to anything preceded by the word super. The idea of a slave would put all decision making upon them but balk at the idea that some one else deemed by the owners to do the everyday things and decisions such as the slave themselves.
Imagine getting up every morning and having to decide what underwear to put on then deciding what your slave should wear eat do. Having a robot that you have to program every day would be the extreme o f desires but I am sure that any owner reading this or Dominant whould sit back and say this is what their slave would want total loss of control total absence of responsibility for themselves. All they have to do is do what they are told or accept the punishment.
The Dominant on the other hand while we think of ourselves as just people might well have the extreme idea that once trained that is how they remain never faulting again never causng extra work. We would have perfect households. Food would be ready on the table our slippers at the door when we enter. While at the beginning this might be true later on this will change as the salve feels with more time there should be more play. With out more play the control will be taken back from the dominant in rules not followed arguments poor service insolence and general break down in th eslave Master relationship.
The extrems of both must be discussed and fully exposed. IN that fashion both parties will have been honest and a common grofor slavery and service will be found. It is not for every one! There are many compromises both parties must go through. A concern might be the area of health and some thing as small as diet. If a slave is missing vitamins in their deit yet refuse to eat their veggies lets say even after their doctors a has told them to. Is this an area you want to worry about ? If you force them to even thought they say you have control they will also sit back and say to themselves after looking at those green things on their plate again thinking I am perfect healthy with out those things. Are you stong enough to stare them down and is the slave strong enough or trusting enough that you are doing this for them and not the power trip that you can.
In a twenty/four seven relation you have two solitudes. Tha slave’s interpertaiona nd the Owners.
The slave will look to the owner for thier desires to be met for as much of the time as they deem possible. If any owner was ever albe to live up to these expectations, they would be wearing a blue body suit with red short and red cape usually answering to anything preceded by the word super. The idea of a slave would put all decision making upon them but balk at the idea that some one else deemed by the owners to do the everyday things and decisions such as the slave themselves.
Imagine getting up every morning and having to decide what underwear to put on then deciding what your slave should wear eat do. Having a robot that you have to program every day would be the extreme o f desires but I am sure that any owner reading this or Dominant whould sit back and say this is what their slave would want total loss of control total absence of responsibility for themselves. All they have to do is do what they are told or accept the punishment.
The Dominant on the other hand while we think of ourselves as just people might well have the extreme idea that once trained that is how they remain never faulting again never causng extra work. We would have perfect households. Food would be ready on the table our slippers at the door when we enter. While at the beginning this might be true later on this will change as the salve feels with more time there should be more play. With out more play the control will be taken back from the dominant in rules not followed arguments poor service insolence and general break down in th eslave Master relationship.
The extrems of both must be discussed and fully exposed. IN that fashion both parties will have been honest and a common grofor slavery and service will be found. It is not for every one! There are many compromises both parties must go through. A concern might be the area of health and some thing as small as diet. If a slave is missing vitamins in their deit yet refuse to eat their veggies lets say even after their doctors a has told them to. Is this an area you want to worry about ? If you force them to even thought they say you have control they will also sit back and say to themselves after looking at those green things on their plate again thinking I am perfect healthy with out those things. Are you stong enough to stare them down and is the slave strong enough or trusting enough that you are doing this for them and not the power trip that you can.
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