Titles

Titles do so bother me yet they must be used so that fifty questions are eliminated. A Master to me is one that has mastered a chosen discipline. They can also be a master of some one a person. If the latter then it is up to the person who has been mastered to give the recognition or title. If it is a discipline then it is up to those who have mastery of the discipline to judge if he is good enough. This is the way in martial arts which has been around a lot longer then the lifestyle and perhaps we should take heed of the protocols and rules in a way of life that the lifestyle tries to duplicate in a very faint way.

These words are my thoughts on the way the lifestyle is now I would suggest that slave to master think a spell before taking a title that they have to live up to.

My ten cents.

Positions

I do believe the best position for a male slave is to be hung from the hands. It robs then of their greatest strength their legs it causes them to loose their next strength their arms and it totally exposes their body to the desires of the dominant. Nothing like seeing a male belt whipped in this position as the belt for me causes the right amount of sting and pain and can be used in most safe places leaving a lovely red glow to the skin.

Indecisions

So, chains interesting things they do to look heavy until you have worn then for a while. Then working in them becomes annoying they get heavy they pinch and are in the way. If there is any sort of wood furniture, you must be extremely careful. They cause you to concentrate and more times then not the chains cause you to look silly. So dare I say the word a challenge just one for me is to wear my chains for five days next week. Sort of help to decides which is my stronger side dominant or slave.

IT was pointed out to me that they do not know how to address me or how polite do they have to be with a switch. I realize this is a point of confusion and can cause difficulties. So am going to see just how much submission there is in me. A few years ago, I agree to try being submissive to any and every one. I could not argue I could not swear I had to treat everyone with the respect I would give to a dominants with out exception. It gave me a lot of insight to how opinionated I was and how I manipulated others including dominants to get what I want. I also tried to do what ever was asked of me to the point of being nice to my mother in law. I am glad she did not suggest anything too drastic.

So once more I will try to see it my submission has improve by putting myself under these rules again. I will see hopefully it this is just an erotic fantasy that occurs now and then or if I am more slave then dom. If I am perhaps a breaking through the ranks party where like the old days of the military the accouterments s of office would be stripped away in front of a room of peers dominants then take the punishment from the dominants for pretending all this time to be their equal. Finally, to be given to their slaves for a final punishment for pretending to be better then they. Hmmm wild fantasy eh okay starting today must be nice to every one do anything they ask that is reasonable and hope those that I was really nasty to do not find out what me nasty no never well almost never lol.

Most enjoyable.

I enjoy using a lot of different instruments to spank with. On of my favourite thing is a machete. The slap of cold steel on some ones ass is such an endearing sound. I seem to concentrate so much more on every stroke. I see the twitches in the body I am working on and the fear in the slave oozes out of the slave. Questions that must be running through their mine what if he just turns the blade a little how much damage would it cause? What if he just drops it? Fear such a lovely thing when used properly.

A cold tush

Funny, how when the weather changes! The ease of getting up and not putting on clothes becomes a little more difficult. So I have been told to overcome this so no clothes till noon. Other wise known as slave wear.

nija

I sat down with lots of time and nothing to do so I put together a list of toys that I like the best now as far as play sessions

1. Wood paddles
2. Yardsticks
3. leather paddles
4. Floggers
5. Short leather whips and quirts
6. Canes
7. Whips
8. After that well I will leave the rest to the Dominant (giggles)

Can you tell I am having a slow day! Time to hang aroundin the garage.

nija

Thought s on Humiliation

Humiliation is an art form that many think they have mastered. Humiliation play must produce in the victim a feeling of exposure. The most delicate of details or hidden secrets revealed with inevitability. They can be no escape for the victim whether it is to run or verbally defend. Since I know myself well I will speak from my perspective.

Spitting on some one is is saying that you are so weak however if the one spat upon chased the person down the street that does not show weakness. Put the same person in a room of twenty people spitting on him or in bondage caused a different effect. It says you are controlled and we will do anything we want to. Not being able to defend or chase after them produces the helpless feeling sought after.
Size is another point that many miss. The idea is to draw attention t the penis and balls or breasts for women. While verbal can be fun I know of only one that can get under my skin with verbal discussion of my penis how ever put me in a control area where I cannot escape from with the part exposed to visual evaluation alone with verbal and I am totally brought to the level of being helpless that I have no control of what secrets will be forced out. Just like the slave the whole idea is to reduce the slave or one humiliated to a point of doing what is asked of them including exposing greater secrets giving over more control in a constant escalation.

The last part of humiliation who is doing it? Should a former slave take charge of my humiliation that would be utterly embarrassing there fore I would love it. I also find it very stimulating to be humiliated by those of another race which I do not understand as I am not prejudice they just seem to be able to push my buttons in the right way.