You can learn many things in a short period of tiem though many are not pleasant realisations.

At my son's wedding recently I learned how sick my brother is , I also learned that my good friend will be leaving the province and while he will only be about three hours away it might as well be China with my in ability to get around easily.

I learned that my concept of Dominant and slave are either perhistoric or fiction. I learned most dominants do not base their activities on their honour and desires but
 on what other swill think of them. Ilearned that most dominants are
scared to make a mistake so they coin fun little phrases to hide  behind.

I learned that while we have a statemetnt of who is in control the slave,  no-one really is  I learned rules do not exist they are considered more guidelines.

I learned that most dominants in their finery so not know how to dominate or how to be owners then there is the weapons they carry at their sides professing mastery over them .

I worry when entering a room full of self titled with no more experinece except what is fashionable.

I have learned that it is time to keep to myself and a few of my kind and stay away from what is the lifestyle .