Sadly disappointed in the dominants that what I find to be the majority of what is out there. I find them needy , lacking in strength of character and sub beaten. They do not define what they want. They do not find what their slave wants they dress up like warriors but act like children.
Oh yes they can hit some one but they they do not know how to spank some to orgasm it is almost as if the slave has orgasm waiting for the dominant to look around and see who is watching . Well I was and it was not pretty.
very sad for the future of the lifestyle when this is what slaves are supposed to look to for pleasure and exploration. No wonder there are so many slaves balking at the idea of rules , protocols and control.
A sad day indeed.
Wednesday, August 24, 2011
Thursday, August 18, 2011
Mystic
It started around five thirty. One of the few times there is no human made noise just the noise trees make when they are still. A smell of forest a feeling of moisture but not mist nor rain just a coolness about it. SO pleasant that i bared my flesh to it and enjoyed nature. Funny the peace one can take from this perfect time and place. It is a wonder why we push so hard to get away from it and go to the elect tonics the bells and whistles that so control or push our stress levels.
Wednesday, August 17, 2011
All knowing
I am not! So when I received a reply yesterday I was amused and had to share this well a few sentences of the inquiry.
: Master (I hate that term) I like to say no and stop but i only mean it if it hurts too much or i do not like what is happening. :
I am confused is it just me? How will I know to stop if the same word is used to stop the scene as well as enhance it for her. Now I do not usually use a safe word i find them useless a Dom should know the body he is playing with but i will use a safe word when it is some one I have never played with. I guess that he slave is saying the same thing but communication is so important.
Safe words only protect you if you are with a sane Dom how ever if you allow yourself to be tied up by a total stranger and think a safe word will save you well Virginia no there is no Santa Claus .
: Master (I hate that term) I like to say no and stop but i only mean it if it hurts too much or i do not like what is happening. :
I am confused is it just me? How will I know to stop if the same word is used to stop the scene as well as enhance it for her. Now I do not usually use a safe word i find them useless a Dom should know the body he is playing with but i will use a safe word when it is some one I have never played with. I guess that he slave is saying the same thing but communication is so important.
Safe words only protect you if you are with a sane Dom how ever if you allow yourself to be tied up by a total stranger and think a safe word will save you well Virginia no there is no Santa Claus .
Wednesday, August 10, 2011
B.R.A.T.
They seem to be pet peeves for many dominants. I feel that many dominants do not like brats because they require a lot of work. They do require a great deal but for Brat lovers they are worth while.
In my time i have had three brats most challenging but just dam good slaves. Amanda would do something or say some thing knowing she was close to the limit then coyly look at me and wait to see if she went too far and while see did not i would still playfully punish. Such as at a munch she was riding a dom a lot playfully about his french how English's it sounded when she looked at me and smiled i ordered a lemon and told her to suck the juice of the lemon because i wanted to see if french girls really had perky lips. We all laughed at her winces and her laugh as she did what was asked by me. Now when it came down to being my slave she was excellent but when she got a little board when that is when i had to stay ahead of her which kept me going i loved it.
So a brat for me is a good thing and so is a good slave.
In my time i have had three brats most challenging but just dam good slaves. Amanda would do something or say some thing knowing she was close to the limit then coyly look at me and wait to see if she went too far and while see did not i would still playfully punish. Such as at a munch she was riding a dom a lot playfully about his french how English's it sounded when she looked at me and smiled i ordered a lemon and told her to suck the juice of the lemon because i wanted to see if french girls really had perky lips. We all laughed at her winces and her laugh as she did what was asked by me. Now when it came down to being my slave she was excellent but when she got a little board when that is when i had to stay ahead of her which kept me going i loved it.
So a brat for me is a good thing and so is a good slave.
Monday, August 8, 2011
Choice
In day s of old and days gone bye
it would bring a tear to my eye
when evil would win and good would loose
then i would have to choose
in dragon smoke and dudgeon lair we would labour
till the knights would stand in favour
to bring back the light of day from darkest night
dark would loose all would be right
Now the days and knights have changed
no longer easy to see through the smoke and flame
not easy to see where to put teh blame
if darkness is evil and light is right it should be easy to see what is right
eyes do dim and fears do grow we choose what causes the smallest woe
So now we sit on high with chest plates polished and shield in hand
we lie and sell our souls to those of the land
with gold and silver in their hands
Do we fight for right or fear
do we try to make it clear
do we stand with brightness of day
or hide in shadows and shade of evil and dismay
So there is the choice it is easily made
to follow the light or enter the cave
to use our eyes and see the knave
or enter the cave and be betrayed.
CLoud
it would bring a tear to my eye
when evil would win and good would loose
then i would have to choose
in dragon smoke and dudgeon lair we would labour
till the knights would stand in favour
to bring back the light of day from darkest night
dark would loose all would be right
Now the days and knights have changed
no longer easy to see through the smoke and flame
not easy to see where to put teh blame
if darkness is evil and light is right it should be easy to see what is right
eyes do dim and fears do grow we choose what causes the smallest woe
So now we sit on high with chest plates polished and shield in hand
we lie and sell our souls to those of the land
with gold and silver in their hands
Do we fight for right or fear
do we try to make it clear
do we stand with brightness of day
or hide in shadows and shade of evil and dismay
So there is the choice it is easily made
to follow the light or enter the cave
to use our eyes and see the knave
or enter the cave and be betrayed.
CLoud
Monday, May 9, 2011
My protocols
Here they are they have meaning to me so then most important to any slave or sub wanabee that wishes my participation.
Protocols.
Greeting: Greeting must take place upon entree there are three positions.
1. this position is for when you have done every task and your regular chores to what you think is perfection. Standing naked with knees apart arms by your side not touching your sides palms open and facing me your eeyes staring into mine.
2. Kneeling naked knees apart ankles crossed hands on your head eyes staring at my belt this position will be most common for you as this says that you do not know if you have lived up to my measure of a slave.
3. This position is one that you feel you have failed as my slave during my absence. face done on the floor legs open aswide as you can arms stretched out toward my feet forehead on the ground.
While in my presence you will always be naked unless commanded differently.
1. you are never allowed to enter a room I am in or leave it without permission.
2. while attending to me you shall do so from the left of me stand beside me with your knees together and straight your posture must be straight shoulders, chest out and stomach in.
3. your naked flesh is never to touch the furniture unless instructed to do so.
4. you are polite to all but obey only me. you are a slave to me but should be a possession of desire of others I have not chosen you because you are a door mat more that you are a wanted prize make this come through in your actions and conversation.
5. speaking to another dominant your knees must be be together and your right hand must cover your left nipple for the duration of the conversation. another slave or submissive your right hand covers your pubic area
your body and spirit.
1. I do not care about size and shape as much as I do about health, so yes you will be exercising your mind and body.
2. your body will comply to my standards as far as hair and hygiene. what you wear under your clothes you will retain for now the control of your outer garments that will be seen by the vanilla world.
Protocols.
Greeting: Greeting must take place upon entree there are three positions.
1. this position is for when you have done every task and your regular chores to what you think is perfection. Standing naked with knees apart arms by your side not touching your sides palms open and facing me your eeyes staring into mine.
2. Kneeling naked knees apart ankles crossed hands on your head eyes staring at my belt this position will be most common for you as this says that you do not know if you have lived up to my measure of a slave.
3. This position is one that you feel you have failed as my slave during my absence. face done on the floor legs open aswide as you can arms stretched out toward my feet forehead on the ground.
While in my presence you will always be naked unless commanded differently.
1. you are never allowed to enter a room I am in or leave it without permission.
2. while attending to me you shall do so from the left of me stand beside me with your knees together and straight your posture must be straight shoulders, chest out and stomach in.
3. your naked flesh is never to touch the furniture unless instructed to do so.
4. you are polite to all but obey only me. you are a slave to me but should be a possession of desire of others I have not chosen you because you are a door mat more that you are a wanted prize make this come through in your actions and conversation.
5. speaking to another dominant your knees must be be together and your right hand must cover your left nipple for the duration of the conversation. another slave or submissive your right hand covers your pubic area
your body and spirit.
1. I do not care about size and shape as much as I do about health, so yes you will be exercising your mind and body.
2. your body will comply to my standards as far as hair and hygiene. what you wear under your clothes you will retain for now the control of your outer garments that will be seen by the vanilla world.
Friday, May 6, 2011
A comment
A comment on my friends blog. A dominant that agrees damage is not an objective of mine.
Blue is not a colour for humans. Despite the love of extreme play there are ways of attaining the sensation without the damage.
I have seem testicle and penises in deep blue almost black and wonder why? The human body has indicators to let you know it is a little too much. One of them is colour. Red is the first colour when there is a flush or deeper pink from repeated strikes to a spot we know we should move on returning to that spot only when the red or pink diminishes. When it is in the face you know the air way is being closed so you lighten up on the grip of their neck.
So i do not understand when a part of the anatomy is blue you do not realize you have gone too far or worse the dominant was not paying attention. There is knowledge out there that can give the sensation such as the cat's claw. Which holds the testicles securely but does not cut off the blood flow. Binding the breast is the same you can firmly hold the breast without it going blue.
So i do not understand how or why there are those that bow to the wishes of the slave to bind tighter the dominant is in charge at that moment and for all the cute phrases is the one with the responsibility.
Scar tissue damage to glands are all not a requirement of the lifestyle. Caring for one's property allowing the slave to give themselves over with out worry is part a major part of the lifestyle. In youth we tend to think we know it all and do not seek out a mentor that has the experience in the area you wish to move into not just offer a naked ass to some one holding a cane in their hand hoping that warm tingling sensation is shared by the one with the cane.
My ten cents on a subject that the youth should worry about if you want more extreme play you will pay for it later through desensitisation, scaring , aches and pains so know what you are getting into .Now I shall return to my silence.
Blue is not a colour for humans. Despite the love of extreme play there are ways of attaining the sensation without the damage.
I have seem testicle and penises in deep blue almost black and wonder why? The human body has indicators to let you know it is a little too much. One of them is colour. Red is the first colour when there is a flush or deeper pink from repeated strikes to a spot we know we should move on returning to that spot only when the red or pink diminishes. When it is in the face you know the air way is being closed so you lighten up on the grip of their neck.
So i do not understand when a part of the anatomy is blue you do not realize you have gone too far or worse the dominant was not paying attention. There is knowledge out there that can give the sensation such as the cat's claw. Which holds the testicles securely but does not cut off the blood flow. Binding the breast is the same you can firmly hold the breast without it going blue.
So i do not understand how or why there are those that bow to the wishes of the slave to bind tighter the dominant is in charge at that moment and for all the cute phrases is the one with the responsibility.
Scar tissue damage to glands are all not a requirement of the lifestyle. Caring for one's property allowing the slave to give themselves over with out worry is part a major part of the lifestyle. In youth we tend to think we know it all and do not seek out a mentor that has the experience in the area you wish to move into not just offer a naked ass to some one holding a cane in their hand hoping that warm tingling sensation is shared by the one with the cane.
My ten cents on a subject that the youth should worry about if you want more extreme play you will pay for it later through desensitisation, scaring , aches and pains so know what you are getting into .Now I shall return to my silence.
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