A comment

A comment on my friends blog. A dominant that agrees damage is not an objective of mine.


Blue is not a colour for humans. Despite the love of extreme play there are ways of attaining the sensation without the damage.

I have seem testicle and penises in deep blue almost black and wonder why? The human body has indicators to let you know it is a little too much. One of them is colour. Red is the first colour when there is a flush or deeper pink from repeated strikes to a spot we know we should move on returning to that spot only when the red or pink diminishes. When it is in the face you know the air way is being closed so you lighten up on the grip of their neck.

So i do not understand when a part of the anatomy is blue you do not realize you have gone too far or worse the dominant was not paying attention. There is knowledge out there that can give the sensation such as the cat's claw. Which holds the testicles securely but does not cut off the blood flow. Binding the breast is the same you can firmly hold the breast without it going blue.


So i do not understand how or why there are those that bow to the wishes of the slave to bind tighter the dominant is in charge at that moment and for all the cute phrases is the one with the responsibility.
Scar tissue damage to glands are all not a requirement of the lifestyle. Caring for one's property allowing the slave to give themselves over with out worry is part a major part of the lifestyle. In youth we tend to think we know it all and do not seek out a mentor that has the experience in the area you wish to move into not just offer a naked ass to some one holding a cane in their hand hoping that warm tingling sensation is shared by the one with the cane.

My ten cents on a subject that the youth should worry about if you want more extreme play you will pay for it later through desensitisation, scaring , aches and pains so know what you are getting into .Now I shall return to my silence.

So bleeding hearts please explain?

Once upon a time there was the death penalty. Most of those of my age did not agree with it and had it abolished. In hind sight there was a problem with the finality of it due to recent revelations that police used torture and the courts were blind to justice and went for force confessions and left out key evidence. The idea of finding out some one did not do it was horrifying.

I got use to idea of rehabilitation but never felt the victim was treated fairly as they were dead and the killer was alive and on vacation with those of like minds in a prison. Now we have a killer that has served his time got put do to good behaviour landed a job being a song writer and performer and we are upset! He did what you wanted him to do so why are you not going to see his show or accept him back he has done his time? Does not taste good does it. We are not the society of Star Trek . We think we are but we still want our pound of flesh we want him to fail not be good not successful. We want him to fail and never been seen again hopefully go off and shoot himself because we did not want to do it ourselves did we bleeding hearts.

And how much did this cost us and we are still not happy.

Titles

Titles do so bother me yet they must be used so that fifty questions are eliminated. A Master to me is one that has mastered a chosen discipline. They can also be a master of some one a person. If the latter then it is up to the person who has been mastered to give the recognition or title. If it is a discipline then it is up to those who have mastery of the discipline to judge if he is good enough. This is the way in martial arts which has been around a lot longer then the lifestyle and perhaps we should take heed of the protocols and rules in a way of life that the lifestyle tries to duplicate in a very faint way.

These words are my thoughts on the way the lifestyle is now I would suggest that slave to master think a spell before taking a title that they have to live up to.

My ten cents.

Positions

I do believe the best position for a male slave is to be hung from the hands. It robs then of their greatest strength their legs it causes them to loose their next strength their arms and it totally exposes their body to the desires of the dominant. Nothing like seeing a male belt whipped in this position as the belt for me causes the right amount of sting and pain and can be used in most safe places leaving a lovely red glow to the skin.

Indecisions

So, chains interesting things they do to look heavy until you have worn then for a while. Then working in them becomes annoying they get heavy they pinch and are in the way. If there is any sort of wood furniture, you must be extremely careful. They cause you to concentrate and more times then not the chains cause you to look silly. So dare I say the word a challenge just one for me is to wear my chains for five days next week. Sort of help to decides which is my stronger side dominant or slave.

IT was pointed out to me that they do not know how to address me or how polite do they have to be with a switch. I realize this is a point of confusion and can cause difficulties. So am going to see just how much submission there is in me. A few years ago, I agree to try being submissive to any and every one. I could not argue I could not swear I had to treat everyone with the respect I would give to a dominants with out exception. It gave me a lot of insight to how opinionated I was and how I manipulated others including dominants to get what I want. I also tried to do what ever was asked of me to the point of being nice to my mother in law. I am glad she did not suggest anything too drastic.

So once more I will try to see it my submission has improve by putting myself under these rules again. I will see hopefully it this is just an erotic fantasy that occurs now and then or if I am more slave then dom. If I am perhaps a breaking through the ranks party where like the old days of the military the accouterments s of office would be stripped away in front of a room of peers dominants then take the punishment from the dominants for pretending all this time to be their equal. Finally, to be given to their slaves for a final punishment for pretending to be better then they. Hmmm wild fantasy eh okay starting today must be nice to every one do anything they ask that is reasonable and hope those that I was really nasty to do not find out what me nasty no never well almost never lol.

Most enjoyable.

I enjoy using a lot of different instruments to spank with. On of my favourite thing is a machete. The slap of cold steel on some ones ass is such an endearing sound. I seem to concentrate so much more on every stroke. I see the twitches in the body I am working on and the fear in the slave oozes out of the slave. Questions that must be running through their mine what if he just turns the blade a little how much damage would it cause? What if he just drops it? Fear such a lovely thing when used properly.

A cold tush

Funny, how when the weather changes! The ease of getting up and not putting on clothes becomes a little more difficult. So I have been told to overcome this so no clothes till noon. Other wise known as slave wear.

nija