Swiches too much to do too little time

Yean old post based n my experience take what you will from it.




A new Dom feels many things when first in the lifestyle. Astonishment as to what you can do to someone. The ultimate power you have and hold over the slaves. The excitement you can cause in some one by telling them to kneel let alone the word strip. The want and almost need to dom anything that shows the smallest submissive trait is so strong it is hard not to have twenty slaves when you begin.

A slave when first taste of submission comes to them it is tactile, the feeling of cold floor on your needs. The look of want in the eyes of the possible dominants that want you. The first slap the touch of the cane or whip stimulation almost beyond capacity for you to feel or understand but the need for more is great.

In a switch you must deal with both sets of wants of the dominants and submissive some times almost at the same time. There becomes a fire inside and the feeling that there is not enough time to experience everything. Unfortunately this can cause a vacuum for the switch as the wish to experience pushes opportunities too quickly and we loose sight of what we had too late and we loose them.

The best advice I can offer a switch is slow down and taste everything you are offered but truly taste it. Do not think that it will remain there waiting for you to taste nor think that throwing something in your mouth and with two bites swallow, tastes. That would compare to taking a fine wine in a beer stein.

The speed that one goes through and ultimately disposes of opportunities in the lifestyle might well be in ratio to those left damages or hurt in your wake.

Darkness where best we see the light

Well it was dark and cloudy but as I say Darkness is where best we see the light. I said it many years ago and still believe in the statement. As my friends know my vision is poor but yet in a storm or dark night at least outside shadows come alive and the contrast is different. The harsh daylight blinds what I see well in the night.

Very much like the darkness we hide, at least most of us have to that have vanilla partners or children of any age. Vanilla family or friends the ones we never want o look bad in front of. Their concepts we do not want shattered perhaps the truth is too much to bear for some. No slave wishes his sons or daughters to see him naked on leash begging his master to hit him. No woman wishes her children to see her given away for play or the object of a gang rape fantasy.

Yet, close the lights and let the darkness fall and you have pure thought fantasy not controlled but thoughts of others or the physical laws vanilla desires. So in the dark light do we do see the beast that which is in us all striving for relief! A few hours perhaps minutes but release, to live roles or fantasy to taste the whip then like the vampires disappear before morning’s light.

Like a candle that can hide so easily in the daytime need the night to be shine so do we push the beast back in till next we find relief..

Addictions

A blank page my quill is at the ready yet nothing flows down my arm to appear as written version of my thoughts. Perhaps too many thoughts are ready to be written perhaps there are none to be said.

The wonder drug Lyrica had it’s affect good at fist but the need increases and to achieve the same affect but like other addictions you need more to satisfy the demon.

Like the drug the allure of having a slave has returned and the addiction needs feeding once again. I find so m many are looking for love and marriage using the meat markets for that purpose for that reason. Yes they will tell you anything to get what they want. Now, the question is there a slave out there that will take only what is given and not demand for more!

Fear is a good thing

Man is subject to innumerable pains and sorrows by the very condition of humanity, and yet, as if nature had not sown evils enough in life, we are continually adding grief to grief and aggravating the common calamity by our cruel treatment of one another. (J.A.Froude)

Would seem that Mr Froude would agree with me that we are cruel to each other part of our make up I guess. Why then should we change what we are?

Fear is a good thing in my opinion. Fear has kept the human race going for years without it Lions, Tigers and bears would rule. Fear intensifies our senses and causes the elevation of all sorts of endorphins. Something, which also provides flight for subs and slaves, seems funny does it not to say that we should not use fear in sessions and relations if it intensifies the feelings?


Now as far as cruelty would not stabbing someone with needles, beating them with tack paddles or whipping them till they hang from the chains they have be bound to. They certainly are not signs of love in the vanilla world, which J. A. Froude is a staunch member of, So while his words have the most meaning in that dimension they might well be out of context in the lifestyle.

Nope I think fear has its’ place in the toy bag and like any other toy must be used properly. One of the games you could say that need fear hmmm lets see I think it is called a mind fuck with out fear then it will not work. So I will stand by my words and go further fear greatly enhances emotions in a Master/slave relation. It keeps an edge that cannot be found elsewhere.

Do I want a perfectly trained slave

What is a perfectly trained slave? That answer can only be found in the id of their owner.

As for me I do not believe in the idea of a perfectly trained slave that to me is a doormat. There is no spunk in a doormat; it is like whipping a dead horse. You might gain some pleasure from the beating but the horse will not move nor does it care.

I prefer a stronger character one that does rebel a bit shows some strength, one that is waiting to feel the reins pulled tight and shown once again the strength of the Master. I like a bit of fire I want the need to control those characters to consume my time with them. Yes part of the trip of a Master showing off what they can control. I am not as impressed with the docile slaves scurrying about because there are rules to follow, I want them to scurry about because they fear my disappointment, my anger and my discipline in other words they fear me.

Pure Master orowner is it possible

I believe that pure domination is possible. Pure slavery and Pure owner can exists. I do believe many say they are in it by being in 24/7 relations or by the extreme of their play In my opinion, most who say they are in 24,7 relations really are, just it is not the lifestyle that is the bases.
No slave hands over total control to the dominants as they would, unless they be sold or given as an object. I feel a great many 24/7s cloud the idea with being together as 24/7 bdsm lifestyle rather than they are in a vanilla relation with a lot of kink. So total mental and physical control would be at the top of the list. I would never have to be anything but the owner or Master. Never to show weakness in front of the slave, so as not to give any form of control back to her.. Nor falter and allow the slave a choice of anything. Her vanilla life would disappear, as that is a form of control. Health , business, family and friends would have no concern for her as she would be like the couch or pot that I use. She would serve a purpose and I would care for her as I would any possession that proves itself useful.
Perhaps a week many two I would last as that type of Dominant, but for me that definition is more of a doormat then a slave. I do believe that must be given a controlling interest in all parts of the slave’s life nor should the Dominant show weakness in front of the slave. I just would prefer to be the proprietor of a fine horse then say I own a stool. Perhaps there is another definition of pure Master or Owner.

Pure Dominance

A conversation with a friend delved into the idea of pure slavery. as I sit in my den listening to Medievil Babes I have come to realise this universe doe not allow singular entities to exist. Teh yning an dyang must exist in all parts of our lives. We now have accepted the idea of dark matter in the Universe.

SO if there is true slavery is there true Dominance?

What does it consist of off?